When it comes to relationships, an important aspect is experimenting and creating new experiences that help couples maintain passion and interest in each other. Sex is no exception. Just like in any other area of life, it’s essential to try new things to avoid routine and discover new dimensions of pleasure. In this article, we’ve gathered 29 ideas worth trying in your intimate life to spice up your relationship and bring a breath of fresh air. Ready for new discoveries? Then keep reading!
29 Things You Should Try in Sex
- Losing your virginity – It’s your entry ticket into the world of physical pleasures. If this still seems tricky to you, take a lesson from the Tanzanian tribe “Go-Go,” where young men learn the joys of sex using a watermelon, carving a hole in it to their liking. Interesting method, isn’t it?
- Delayed ejaculation – Even if you don’t have time for tantric studies, you should at least learn to control yourself for the pleasure of your partner. Women need more time to get aroused, so don’t rush to “finish” after just a kiss.
- Master at least three positions – Basic options like “with a cigarette in hand” don’t count. If your partner has already memorized the ceiling pattern, it’s time to offer something new, like turning her over onto her stomach.
- Massage – A few drops of cream and gentle touches can work wonders. Even the shyest woman will relax in your hands. And no, paid massages don’t count!
- Make her blush – Flushed skin during sex is a sure sign of pleasure. But be careful not to mistake it for an allergic reaction!
- Textured condoms – You must have tried these! While they may feel indifferent to you, they offer her a new sensation, enhancing the experience.
- Bring a third person into bed? – It’s worth asking a friend or her close one to join at least once. No need to be pushy, but why not give it a shot?
- Clean up the bedroom – Toss out her flannel pajamas and stuffed animals. This isn’t a classroom; it’s time for passion.
- Mutual masturbation – This can help you get to know each other better and strengthen your bond. Plus, it offers a chance to see everything up close.
- Selfless oral sex – Once in a while, give her this pleasure without expecting anything in return. It will make you her favorite forever.
- Midday sex – Women love it when a man is still energized and full of life. A quick break during the day for sex? Yes, please!
- Sex toys – If you haven’t tried any yet, now is the time. Variety is the spice of a good sex life.
- Photo session – A camera in your hands and your partner in front of you – completely nude. It’s fun and can bring a new spark to the relationship.
- A pillow under her hips – Placing a pillow under her hips enhances clitoral stimulation, leading to greater pleasure.
- Porn – Watching together can be exciting, but be careful: not all women enjoy hardcore films. Let her pick something.
- Synchronized orgasm – While it’s not necessarily the pinnacle of pleasure, it can still feel great when it happens.
- Bondage games – You don’t need handcuffs, just let her tie you up. Experience being helpless in her hands.
- Quick sex – Spontaneous and fast sex can be as stimulating as long, drawn-out sessions.
- Remove her pet from the bed – Don’t let her little dog get in the way of your plans.
- Bathing together – A relaxing bath with candles and wine can be the perfect setting for a romantic evening.
- A whole day in bed – The ultimate indulgence. Just remember that someone (not you) will need to get up for food.
- Sex in unusual places – Elevator, roof, or car… Try adding a new location for excitement.
- Her lingerie – Try on her lacy underwear for fun. It’s a playful challenge to your openness.
- Dirty talk – Swearing during sex is becoming more common. Start slowly, but don’t overdo it.
- Unleash your inner “bad guy” – Let your inner macho take charge. You don’t need to be aggressive, just add some role-playing.
- Honey or jam – Sweet treats like honey are fun to lick off your partner’s body.
- Her breasts – If you think breasts aren’t important, think again. Stimulating her nipples can lead to intense pleasure.
- Petting in public places – Secret caresses in a movie or restaurant can turn an ordinary date into something unforgettable.
- Confessing your love – Saying “I love you” without hesitation is a challenge only a real man can handle. If you find it hard, try practicing in front of a mirror.
